Even the most ardent and enthusiastic players and students will at some time
or another, find that they must deal with the enemy of forward movement known as
"boredom". The experience can range from feeling a localized loss of
enthusiasm with a song or piece that we have been putting a sustained effort
into, to not feeling like practicing for long
periods of time. It is a multi-faceted
subject; boredom will make its appearance at various times, in various ways, and
for various reasons. Like its kindred area of concern-practice organization,
dealing with it is most properly seen as an essential life skill, one that we
will be called upon to exercise in many other areas of life, not just the most
important one, our guitar playing!
To Be Bored Or Not To Be Bored
The first thing that any thoughtful consideration of the subject will bring
to light is the fact that each of us has a native capacity for enthusiasm, some
more, some less. Some people are naturally endowed with a zest for life and all
it contains, they tend to go at things with great energy as a rule. Others just
kind of shuffle along through life, as if their primary goal was to avoid
attracting much attention, hoping no one will notice they are here. They
don't want to have too much of an effect on the world, and are hoping the world
will not have too much effect on them.
And so, we have two types of people: the first has an almost natural immunity
to boredom; life is too exciting for boredom to ever appear. The other finds
life bearable at best, and constantly seeks to escape its pressure. This
latter type will rarely be found in the ranks of good guitar players, they
really don't have what it takes to find the love of playing within themselves,
and then turn the desire to improve into real accomplishment. However, we frequently
find this person flirting with the guitar, trying some lessons perhaps, to see
if something can be accomplished without paying too high a price in personal
energy and commitment.
The challenge to keep our practice exciting and motivating still remains even
for those of us not mired in these deeper issues of personal development. Even
the most motivated and hardworking student must know how to navigate through the
constantly shifting demands of technical development, knowledge of music, and of
course, musical enjoyment. We all must discover how to conduct the
balancing act between applying ourselves to something long enough to produce
results, while still knowing when to move on to new, exciting and motivating
challenges.
Boredom With Exercises
Exercises will quickly lead to boredom if we do not know two things: where
they are coming from, and where they are going. By this I mean that we must know
WHY we are doing an exercise, and we must know HOW to do it so that progress
with the skill developed by the exercise is evident. I will categorically state
that most guitar students doing exercises do not have the slightest idea of HOW
they should really be done, and that is why results are so often minimal, or
actually counterproductive; the doing of the exercise actually builds in playing
handicaps. If we are getting
nowhere, then nowhere is where we feel like going, and so we naturally fall into
a boring acceptance of our present position, and exert no effort to move beyond
it. We must see, we must experience, the cause and effect relationship between
our efforts with the exercise, and the results those efforts produce, or all
motivation to continue will be lost. Unfortunately, teachers will typically hand out exercises with great enthusiasm, while remaining silent on the subject of how that exercise needs to be done, tailored to the individual student sitting in front of them so that success will be experienced.
We must also know WHAT the exercise is going to do for us, and WHERE it is
going to take us. We must be able to see its elements and its purpose in the
overall context of guitar playing ability, as much as we are able to. We should
demand this insight from our teachers, while realizing that our ability to grasp
and appreciate this knowledge is slight in the beginning, and grows with time.
Even with this understanding, we will come in time to be bored with a
particular exercise, either because it has done all it can for us at this time,
or the natural need of the human mind for the excitement of change has come to
the fore. We should move on to another exercise, and come back to review the one
we are leaving at a later date, at which point it will serve as an interesting
barometer of our progress (we should ALWAYS be able to do them to a higher level
of skill, if we are consistently engaged in correct practice.). If we find we
are bored with all exercises, it will be from one of two reasons: either we
truly do not understand anything about any exercise we do, or we are sincerely
satisfied with our present level of technical ability, and have no wish to
improve upon it.
Boredom With Songs or Pieces
Unlike exercises, which have no point at which they are ultimately
"finished", we must have a point of closure with songs or pieces. We must have
an "exit strategy". So, how do we know we are "finished" with a song or piece?
When we can either perform it for others, or make a recording of it for
ourselves, then we know we are "finished". As an important provisional
step, being able to sit and play the song or piece from beginning to end is a
good indication that we are close to our goal, that we have "got our hands
around it".
So, what if we get bored before reaching that point?
Well, than we have not sufficiently set these endpoints of performing or
recording the piece as desirable and necessary goals, and we must reinforce our
realization of the necessity for doing so. I am not saying we must do this with
every song or piece we come into contact with, but at any given time we
should be in the process of raising something to "performance level".
Professionals do not have the luxury of procrastinating about doing this: we
live or die (eat or starve) by our ability to deliver the goods. Students should
beware of the danger of languishing around with bits and pieces of unfinished
music, as it is an easy trap to fall into, and quickly leads to malaise about
practice.
The Anatomy Of Boredom
In order to deal effectively with the myriad forms of boredom, we must
understand it in its essence. Boredom is the state that results from the
suppression of Desire. As a vacuum is there when air is not, Boredom is here
when Desire is not.
There are many reasons for the suppression of desire, from the casual to the
tragic. We may continue to plug away at a piece or a solo, long after we have
lost all enthusiasm for it, because we think we are "supposed to" be able to
play it. A reassessment, and formation of more appropriate goals may be needed,
but we do not allow that. Or, we may continue a certain style of guitar, and
avoid learning another, because we are not "supposed to" play rock if we are
looked at as classical guitarists.
We may not follow the prompting of our heart. We may not finish that song we
started writing, because we feel we are not great songwriters, and of course, we must be
great before we are allowed to do what we want! This happened in a lesson
recently with someone who was bringing "Here Comes The Sun" by George Harrison
to completion. It was 90% done, and his motivation was flagging, not just for
the song, but for practice in general. As we looked into it, I asked him what he
really wanted to do. "Write my own music" was his reply. We discussed why, then,
he wasn't doing this. Of course, it was fear, the usual culprit, fear of not
being good enough. He played a half finished song for me (half finished for a
long time) and I told him I wanted to hear the other half next time. Boredom was
setting in as the proper punishment for him not listening to his pure desire. Of course,
like pain, it should be seen as a warning signal, that more attention is needed
to various neglected parts of ourselves. Whenever we are feeling bored, a lack of will to move, we must ask ourselves
if it is because we are afraid to admit where we really want to go.
The voice of desire is within all of us, but it must be listened to, or it
will cease to speak, and boredom, and perhaps even apathy, its big brother, will
take its place. The voice of desire is within all of us, because there is a
purpose that has called each one of us into being, and it calls to us throughout
our life. If we are serving our true purpose, chronic boredom cannot exist,
because as our voice is listened to, purpose is uncovered, and goals are
discovered. The rightness of those goals for us will generate Desire that will
pull us toward those goals like iron to a magnet. The congruence of our goals
with our true nature, and our true purpose, determines the intensity of our
desire.
We must chose worthy goals, goals that we respect, goals that give us
self-respect. You will know you have found the goal you need when it gives you
this, as well as the energy to pursue it.
If desire is weak, it is sign we are not doing something we would be doing if
we were true to ourselves, or we are presently doing something we wouldn't. And
so, if we suffer chronic boredom, we must ask ourselves "how am I not listening
to my own inner voice, how am I not seeing, and feeling, my own purpose". Find
the answers, and you will find your Desire, and you will banish boredom forever.
Avoidable Boredom
Boredom can be of a more transitory nature, and be the result of less serious
concerns. Boredom is often simply the result of the failure to set adequate or
appropriate goals, not for any deep reason, but simply because we have not
tended to our own internal "housekeeping". It may arise because the goals we have set are too easy
for us. It takes a certain amount of challenge to energize us and compel us to
bring out our best. On the other hand, if we have chosen goals that are beyond
our present resources to achieve, we will also find our energy and enthusiasm
waning. Picking the right goals as we go along is an essential part of the
process.
Sometimes, we find ourselves not traveling our path of progress simply
because we have not clearly decided where we want to go, or we have not decided in which
direction the path lies. We must create "structures" of activity, we must "cut
out our work" before we can do it. This is why I always stress creating practice
schedules and routines. However, we don't have to follow them 7 days a week, and
we should not turn them into another source of torment by feeling like we are
failing to live up to them. We can just fool around for awhile, and even
cheat and take days off, but we should have a structure to return to after
skipping school!
Inevitable Boredom
Some of the more transitory aspects of boredom
are natural occurrences, arising out of the natural need to seek balance after
one side of a polarity has been experienced to its full, such as the need to get out of the house after being cooped
up for so long you feel "stir crazy". We simply need a change of scenery after
awhile. For this reason, I am always working on a number of things at the same
time in my practice, each at different stages of development; some for pure
technique, some for the music.
When boredom arises, I always listen to it, and I do something to energize my
excitement once again. I may be doing a technical workup for anywhere from 10
min to 30 min, and then stop and play some pieces if I feel the need. I may start something new, or find something
new in what I am presently doing. I do not recommend working while bored, better
to stop and seek the cause and cure of your boredom. Of
course, if we have performance obligations, we must learn the material in any
case, but we should realize that it is not our responsibility to merely learn
the material, but to be excited by it as well, so that excitement can be
transferred to others.
Children, when they are bored, think the world is at fault, that the world is
boring (what parent hasn't heard the lamentation "I'm bored, there's nothing to DOOOOOO!", which is almost as
popular and universal as "Are we there yet!") Sometimes that is true, because they are forced to live in a limited
world of limited choices, but more often, they are simply refusing to make use
of the choices they have. Ultimately, being bored is a failure to meet our own
responsibility, it is a lack of of involvement, a lack of creativity either in
the moment to moment work we do, or in the creation of the structures within
which we work, and the goals we are working toward. It is a warning signal to be
heeded, it means we must make a change, and recharge our inner battery. As in
life, so in guitar, and those who meet the challenges of life with the dedication to express their highest potential will find boredom an infrequent, and fleeting visitor.